Jennifer Lawrence Reveals Why She Declined an Intimacy Coordinator on Latest Project Die My Love

The acclaimed actress has become part of the increasing number of performers who voice skepticism about the essential need of intimacy coordinators, explaining she opted against their assistance while filming her new movie Die My Love.

Examining the Role of Intimacy Coordinators

On-set intimacy professionals emerged following the #MeToo movement to guarantee the safety and ease of performers during scenes involving nudity and sexual content. Yet, several prominent performers including Gwyneth Paltrow and other established stars have expressed reservations about their involvement, with several suggesting they interfere with creative flow.

Lawrence's On-Set Perspective

Speaking during the Las Culturistas podcast, while promoting her latest project where she portrays a woman experiencing mental health challenges, the actress stated: "We did not have an intimacy coordinator, or maybe we had the option but didn't really utilize them... I felt entirely secure with Rob."

She elaborated: "He is not pervy and very committed to his partner. Our conversations primarily revolved around family life and personal connections. There was absolutely no uncomfortable moments or questions about personal boundaries."

"Had there been even a hint of unease, I would have requested an on-set professional. Numerous male performers get upset if you aren't interested in their attention, and then the retaliation starts. He was completely different."

Professional Validation and Ongoing Debate

Recently, industry platform IMDb formally acknowledged intimacy coordinators as a distinct credit, together with eleven other professional roles including choreography, craft services, and puppetry. Previously, they were categorized as "miscellaneous staff" instead of having their specific credit.

Notwithstanding this validation, intimacy coordinators still encounter media scrutiny implying they aren't necessarily required standards, with high-profile performers declining their participation. Jennifer's viewpoint echoes that of another prominent actress, who earlier revealed she refused professional supervision while filming alongside her co-star on The Morning Show.

Jennifer's Perspective

"Jon was such a gentleman – truly each action, between takes, 'Are you OK?" she remembered. "It was also very choreographed. That's the benefit of working with talented directors, suitable lighting. So, you don't prepare."

She added, "They offered, 'Having someone check if you're comfortable,' and I thought, 'Honestly, this is awkward enough!' We're experienced professionals – we can handle this. And we had our director present."

Other Examples and Professional Response

Despite featuring multiple sequences of sexual activity and regular undress, Anora – the director's acclaimed film about a sex worker and a Russian oligarch's son – proceeded without an on-set professional.

Mikey Madison stated she and fellow actor her screen partner "concluded it would be preferable to keep it small."

"The role I play is a professional in adult entertainment, and I had researched the director's work and understood his dedication to realism. I was professionally ready for it. As an actress, I treated it as professional work."

Her comments generated significant backlash from intimacy coordinators, mirroring the response to Gwyneth Paltrow's public statements, who recently shared that working on her new movie Marty Supreme marked her initial experience with the emerging role, which she "did not know existed."

Gwyneth's Viewpoint

When asked about comfort level with a particular action alongside co-star Timothée Chalamet, Paltrow responded: "I'm from the generation where you remove clothing, you assume position, the camera's on."

She continued that she and her co-star then told the coordinator: "We believe we're comfortable. You can step back.' I don't know how it is for emerging actors, but... if someone is directing, '{OK, then he's going to place his hand here,' I would feel, as an artist, very stifled by that."

Industry Response

After these statements, former Channel 4 drama head an experienced producer labeled them "irresponsible" and highlighted that most of those opposing these professionals possess sufficient fame to command their own power and security on film sets.

"Occasionally an performer makes comments about whether they value on-set professionals or not," said Hollick. "The actress stated she grew up in a period when industry professionals 'took our kit off and proceeded professionally'. As a powerful woman in Hollywood working with a actor much younger than her, although likely he is chill, I found it quite an irresponsible remark."

Male Perspective

Michael Douglas, in contrast, expressed that he believes the main obligation during intimate sequences falls on the male performer, instead of a external professional.

"In my experience, you assume duty as the man to make certain the female co-star is comfortable, you discuss it thoroughly," he said. "You communicate, '{OK, I'm going to make contact there if that's agreeable'. It's very deliberate but seems like it's occurring organically, which is ideally what authentic performance looks like."

Mary Blake
Mary Blake

Zkušená novinářka se zaměřením na politické dění a mezinárodní vztahy, píšící pro různé české médi od roku 2015.